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I’ve been a fan of Suzanne Newman’s work since I could remember first walking by her store. I used to work on the Upper East Side, 61st and Lexington was right around the corner and I would always pass by to check if the window display had changed to anything new. I was always cautious not to go in, having the word couture on the door doesn’t really scream pocket friendly for a girl getting paid minimum wage. After a couple years, my curiosity grew, I mustered up the courage, I rang the bell to the doors of heaven, and entered a couture wonderland. Suzanne’s store is a satiable environment for a hungry fashion lover. There is a hat for everyone, any shape, color, feathers, pattern, embellishment that you can think of, and if not then Suzanne can make it! Her store doubles as her studio, through the sea of hats on display, behind the curtains in the back, reveals rows of materials; fabrics, furs, molds, steamers, and sewing machines waiting to create a new masterpiece. My instant admiration for Suzanne’s art inspired me to share my new discovery with as many people that would listen. 


Hats are an underrated accessory, but not for me. My friends poke fun of my “grandma aesthetic”, always wearing an unconventional adornment but making it work. A hat can be the final touch to an outfit that can elevate or complete the vision. On bad hair days I tend to start an outfit with a hat and build a look inspired by whatever headdress I chose for the day. On the day that I had scheduled an interview with Suzanne, I went sans hat because I knew I would be eager to play dress up when I got there. I rode the train uptown and skipped out of the station unable to contain my excitement. 






EL: I read on your website, your ‘about me’ section, how you were born in South Africa and then you moved to London.


SN: Yes, I moved to London and I worked in fashion, then I got married in London and we were transferred to America, so that’s how I got here, that’s how I landed in New York. 


EL: What were you doing in fashion specifically, while in London?


SN: I was always interested in fashion since I was a little girl and living in South Africa. We didn't have the access to any of the fashions, but my mother’s hairdresser used to have the magazines sent over.  I would go with her to the hairdressing salon and just devour these magazines, and he was so wonderful, he gave me the magazines at the end of the month, and I treasured them. I would follow the magazine and try to make things myself from what I could see and from what I was able to get. I would make dresses…or let’s say a bag, I would try to find beads the same, thread the beads and make it- I remember specifically a little shaped bag. The same with hats, I thought I’d try to make them myself with the limited things available in South Africa. So then, that followed me through when I got married and when I had a child, I made everything, I mean, the crib, the crib covers, the curtains, the coverlets- I was a stay at home mum, but I never stopped with my machine, my machine was always out. It wasn’t until my daughter was going to school and she was a little bit older, did I meet a milliner, Josephine Tripoli-Davi, who was on 59th Street and we met by chance. She was wanting to retire and I was looking for something to do- so I said, “uh-huh, I can do this”, and she tapped me on the shoulder and she said “well my dear, my shops for sale,” and so I was like “okay okay I can do this, I have to find a way.” At that stage, I was a single mum, I was on my own, finances were a little tight and after a little negotiating, she mortgaged me. I paid her back, it took me 3 years. 


EL: What year was that? 


SN: 1985 to 1987. It was in 1987, from 59th Street, I moved to Madison Avenue and I was on Madison for 18 years. Then, September 11th happened and the owner of the building that I was in, 700 Madison Avenue, he was a crazy man, he really was, he was disturbed there’s no question about it. He shot and killed a tenant in his building and so he went to jail, and to raise money for his defense he had to sell the building and we all had to leave. We all had to find another location and I found a little space in a brownstone on 61st street, it was up steps and I was there for 10 years before being here, and I’ve been here for 10 years! We’re talking a long time! 


EL: 10 years! We have to celebrate the anniversary of this space, 10 years is amazing! Do you think you’ll move again? 


SN: I am not moving ever again. No. 


EL: Well you never strayed far, you always stayed in the Upper East Side. 


SN: No, I haven’t strayed because most of my clients are in this area. As much as I would love to be downtown, I always thought about going downtown, but you know it isn’t really me, and I'm getting older and my clientele were the young hippies, you know,  trendy kind of clientele, so, hmm, I stayed uptown. 


EL: Hmm I feel like you should open a store downtown and keep the uptown store as well. 


SN: Ha, I would like that too. But you know, there are lots of other milliners downtown, and that’s fine, that’s great, there's room for everybody, everybody has their own little niche, and so that's perfect for me, I’m okay with that. As it should be. Although, when I say that, I do love trendy and downtown things, personally 


EL: Do you hangout downtown often? 


SN: Uhh, leaving here is difficult. It’s six days a week and we (Suzanne and her team) make everything by hand. So, you know, it’s consuming, a time consuming occupation. 


EL: What do you think each city that you’ve lived in taught you? 


SN: I loved London, I still love London. I go back very often for inspiration and the English wear hats a lot more than any other place. The Queen’s influence, she used to have events, garden parties, meetings, and everybody was required to wear a hat to go and meet the Queen. But, apart from those, I always believed that the trends started on the streets of London, even before it got to Paris. It was those trendy, young, English students that came out with, let’s say the flare pants (in the 1960’s). Once the designers in Paris saw what they were wearing, then they made it into couture. The styles come from the streets of London. In Paris, the people are very well dressed, beautifully dressed, and they wear Dior and couture- but, they’re not trend setters. They follow the trends, wear their cashmere, their shoes are beautiful, and well the people in London are not like that. That’s my observation. In New York, we’re always a little behind. 


EL: Yes! I totally agree, I’ve heard people talk about how New York Fashion Week isn’t as high status as London Fashion Week or Paris or Milan. We definitely get the trickle down effect of all the people coming from Europe, giving us the influence and vice versa sometimes. 


SN: It’s true! For instance, last year I kept saying to my team, “We need brown! Brown is coming in, I can feel it, I know!” My team just kept saying, “No, no, no.” 

When I was last in Europe, you saw brown coming, and it hasn’t got here yet! 


EL: I love brown! I called this trend also! I have this fabulous little brown hat and I wore a whole brown outfit basically but the different fabrics, textures, and dimensions is what makes it not so bleak and boring. 


SN: Brown is the new black! And mixing brown and black always. Even brown and navy I like together. 


EL: I am really bad at following rules, I always tend to break them. 


SN: Yes! Yes! Absolutely. 


EL: Do you agree! I feel like my creative mind can’t. These boxes? I always break it, I always make someone upset! 


SN: laughs Yes!


EL: So I might as well be on my own. 


SN: Be on your own, yes. I always wanted to be on my own, whatever I did, I had to do it myself. I contemplated many things, when I first came here my daughter was just 6 months old and I could not find any decent clothing for this child. I had to make them! I started making my own things for her and you know, dungarees, you couldn’t get a pair of dungarees for a child! Carters were the only American brand who sold them, but they were boxy, square, awful things! Whereas in Paris, you can go and get the cute little t-shirts with the buttons. So, I contemplated making a child’s store, but I didn’t have any finances to do it. You need money to make money. 


EL: What’s your favorite fabric to use? 


SN: Silk. I only work in fur felt for the winter, not wool felt because it's more pliable and a better feel, 100% rabbit hair. 


EL: Isn’t rabbit hair more delicate than wool though? 


Suzanne: Yes but it's more beautiful. In the summer, I work with straw, sisal, which is a natural fiber. It’s so easy to dye, you can work well with it and is easy to handle. Different types of hats take different fabrics. Is there one particular fabric? No, because there's specific fabrics for different times of year. 


EL: If you could only wear one hat, what kind of hat would it be? 


SN: Hm, probably a fedora. You know not every hat suits everybody or every face.


EL: They’re like glasses! 


SN: Yes! They’re like glasses! My glasses are my face furniture. I have hundreds of glasses, I have so many glasses, it’s embarrassing. 


EL:  What movie would you recommend that everyone must watch?

SN: A movie that really inspired me was My Fair Lady, of course. It’s an old old movie but I was very young and I was very influenced by My Fair Lady. I think I could still watch it today and enjoy it. Also Audrey Hepburn, Breakfast at Tiffany’s, those are the ones that really influenced me with the style, the Givenchy dresses. 


EL: Speaking of style, how would you describe your personal style? 


SN: Classic. 


EL: What is your greatest inspiration? 


SN: Youth, I love the youth. I want to always be around young people, they’re my inspiration. I like new trends, I like to see young people, like you with short hair! When I see these reporters on television just all looking the same, with so much hair, it’s not age appropriate, I mean nobody my age can possibly have all that hair. They don’t even look good with hair like that. When I have brides come to me, asking for my advice, I tell them, on your wedding day take your hair back, put it up and put it back. Get rid of it so that your face is exposed for your wedding day and your photographs, they never ever listen to me, very few. They’ll show me the picture and their hair is hanging straight down and they have the veil floating in no man’s land off the back of their head. If you have a bride who doesn’t have a long neck, if she takes her hair and she brings it up it would elongate her and then if you take the veil and you put it up, it’s like a face lift!


EL:  Did you ever watch Sex and The City? What were your thoughts on Carrie’s wedding day feather? 


SN: Oh! Interesting! Yes I loved it! When I have a bride who asks me for something different, I get all excited. It’s time for a short dress and a short veil! No more of those long veils. 


EL: Final question, what would you tell yourself about your business if you could go back in time? 


SN: Maybe to have opened downtown. I love to see trendy things, so that probably would’ve been more inspirational to me had I done that. 


EL: I think everything happens for a reason, I feel like your demographic downtown has now started to rise and really blossom. Uptown has always had that level of elegance. 


SN: The workmanship that we do is really couture work. It’s not glued, it’s the best of everything put together so my prices are high and at the time (1985) you wouldn’t get those prices downtown. 




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“Although Mary (Parker Posey) has little income, she still finds ways to spend her nights at clubs. After being arrested for throwing an illegal rave, she asks her aunt Judy (Sasha von Scherler) for bail money. Judy then finds Mary a job at her library so that Mary can repay her. Initially, Mary finds the job as a clerk boring and stifling, and prefers to get to know a street food vendor (Omar Townsend) whom she likes. However, Mary must refocus her life once she loses her job and apartment.” (IMDb)


Party Girl was seen as something of an oddity. Contemporary reviewers weren’t quite sure what to make of this strange fairy tale featuring a wild-living, uber-fashionable downtown club kid gone good, trading her vintage designer fashion pieces to study the Dewey Decimal System and become a librarian. (Adding to its unique place in the pop culture canon, it was the first film ever to be released and shown in full on a then-novel piece of technology called the internet.)” (Vogue)



A girl with pink hair complimented my outfit and I complimented her hair while we were in line to get popcorn and we ended up in the same theater. A fabulous blonde ate popcorn in the row in front of me. The rows consisted of recurring fans of Party Girl or new fans, like me. I was hooked as soon as I saw the director's name was Daisy, like how fitting because it's such a cute name to match a cute movie! The day prior is when I stumbled upon the poster of Party Girl with Parker Posey sitting pretty in a neck breaking outfit outside of IFC. I knew this movie was about to change my life and immediately became a movie I had to see. I pulled out my butterfly planner and wrote it down in my to-do’s for the next day.


Party Girl is an Indie/Comedy/Cult & Cunt Classic. It came out on June 9th, 1995, and gave those who chose to indulge in cinema, an hour and thirty four minutes of pure joy. Daisy von Scherler Mayer, the director, had a budget of $14K and had a slay $427K in box office. She based Mary on a mutual friend that fit the description of a girl who loved to party but then ended up working at a library, thanks to her, we have an iconic movie to never stop watching. The same movies are always recycled on any social media timeline that I open, Sleepover with the girls and you’re putting on mean girls? Florals? For Spring? Groundbreaking. This is what we should be talking about! Isn’t the 24 year old big city girl more relatable nowadays than revisiting highschool mean girls? I invited the fabulous Jerald, or Juicy J, as I like to call him. Jerald, being the icon socialite that he is, went to the relaunch after party for the movie at Jeans in the East Village and got an iconic picture with Miss Parker Posey herself back in April!




Juicy J with the iconic Parker Posey


This is me in my fabulous outfit to go see Miss Parker Posey in Party Girl photographed by Juicy J<3


The costume design is where I like to start when raving about a movie. I am a very visual person, I need a pretty face in a pretty outfit and a pretty scene. Party Girl delivered! Micheal Clancy, the costume designer for the movie, gave us what all the fashion girls needed. I saw Chanel, Westwood, Gautier, Comme Des Garcons, etc. There were tights, hats, jewelry, accessories galore styled just right. Mary was always wearing the clothes, never the other way around- which is why the ending killed me but we’ll get there. Mary is dressed like every girl in downtown Manhattan, mixing high end with thrifted finds to make a unique outfit that kills.

Clancy, when reminising about making Party Girl on Vogue, talks about how the characters in the movie were familar to him, he knew people that were like Mary and Leo, they were people that were around him when he worked at Area, a popular nightclub back in the day in Manhattan that lasted from 83'-87', the scene was hot, the energy was electric and the outfits were ones that we still reference to this day.





Photos from Vogue


Walls shaking, brain awaking, the tracklist, the music, the absolutely impeccable score! Deee Lite, Madonna, Grace Jones, Tom Tom Club! I felt like I was at the club myself, I couldn’t stop shaking my head and swinging my foot along to the beat. Jerald sent me the playlist that he curated after the movie was over before I could even ask, that’s love. I’ll go ahead and list 3 of my favorites, that are linked to spotify because that’s obviously superior.




  • Carnival ‘93- Club Ultimate



  • Music Selector is the Soul Reflector- Deee Lite



  • Mama Told Me Not To Come - The Wolfgang Press

The music places you right there in 1995, when all these songs were just coming out but feels so modern because of how obsessed we all are with the 90’s. We all listen to house music and dress in a y2k look or vintage designer, regardless, it's always a look that's ready to party. Each song matched the mood and was so right for the moment. Music is everything, music is everywhere, even in our everyday lives we have a score, whether it's the song playing in the coffee shop that you’re getting a chai latte at or at the grocery store, sometimes if you're paying attention, it’ll fit the mood or be comical.


Next, we have the scenes in the movies, how iconic it is to have house parties, how rare. Everyone is a promoter these days and keeps the clubs alive, no one would dare let anyone near their precious closet filled with designer clothing. Every falafel cart scene was my favorite- we love a man who cooks and is a teacher. The montage of her outfits while ordering the same thing, “Can I please get a falafel wrap with hot sauce, a side of baba ganoush, and a seltzer please.” Iconic. The relationship between Mustafa and Mary was something so personal to me. I’ve never been one to download a dating app and I don’t think that will ever change, so I deeply relate to falling in love with a regular character in your life.







The conversation and progression of their everyday relationship was sweet and she let him come to her. Not like most dynamics of the woman being let down by the man, she was a busy girl in her own world, allowing these guys to be graced with her presence, as she should. The scene where Mary went to go visit her lover who worked the door at her favorite club downtown was iconic. He said something she didn’t like and immediately cut him off because she didn’t want to ruin her reputation. “...the whip-smart, hilariously self-obsessed, loose-living firecracker that is Mary.” (Vogue) Mary is so me, I am so Mary.


I didn't intentionally mean to pick The Myth of Sisyphus for my choice of a book to read on my way to the park, but it stuck out to me, as I'm writing my review of Party Girl. When I sat on the bench is when I rememebered Mary's quote, "It's a myth about this guy who had to roll or push this incredibly huge rock up this steep mountain. Every time he would get to the top of this mountain the rock would roll down again. He would watch this and walk back down the mountain and do it all over again." This basically becomes a theme within the movie, where she realizes that she doesn't want to keep pushing the rock up anymore, essentially wanting to become more stable in her life. The "rock"in Mary's life was the one she acquired by spending her energy throwing parties, hoarding clothes, and doing drugs. Living aimlessly amongst her aspirational peers.


I didn't do any research about the plot of the movie, I just knew that I would like it so I let it surprise me. In the beginning, I had so much hope for Mary, I thought she was going to learn the dewey decimal system then become a party planner, it made total sense- the dedication and talent that Mary exuted while learning the system proved that she could easily sustain herself throwing parties. She probably could have made even more money doing what she loved rather than becoming a librarian. I feel like she just gave up - I mean her man, the falafel king, was pursing to be a teacher, was her choosing to be a librarian potentially her way to have a "normal" job like him?


I wonder how the real person, that Mary is based on, feels now, years later. I heard that those who don't chase their dreams regret it later, but what was her dream? Did she fall into the passion of being a librarian because of her aunt and her need to prove her wrong? With her determination to learn the dewy decimal system, she could conquer the world. Was she settling? Are the people who choose the simple life the ones who have it right? I feel the Mary within me and sitting at a desk just isn't in our nature, but I guess I'll never know.


To wrap it up in a pretty little bow, Party Girl enlightens a part within me that absolutely adores the joy in life, a reminder to not take life so seriously but also work for what you want and you will achieve it, go be that librarian girl! (if that's what you want.) I linked the movie trailer for those who aren't familiar. If you haven't watched, I suggest you put it at the tippy top of your watch list and create your own opinion and then comment it down below! Soon you'll be saying he-he-hello to your favorite movie.




Source:

Hess, Liam. “25 Years Later, the Makers of ‘party Girl’ Reflect on the Film’s Enduring Fashion Legacy.” Vogue, 10 June 2020, www.vogue.com/article/party-girl-25th-anniversary-parker-posey.






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Hi, my name is Emilia! Formerly known as Emily but Emilia resonates deeply with me. Emilia rolls off the tongue better- especially for when I’m introducing myself in Portuguese, Spanish, or un po’ d'italiano. Just thought I'd get that out of the way so now we're all on the same page.

I recently just quit my job, it's funny how things manifest for me because as soon as I posted my anti uniform passion piece, my beloved-sans-uniform job decided to enforce uniforms lol.

So, being the drama queen that I am, I said peace out girl scouts!! You can keep your badges and your vests but I'm not being told what to wear.

This is something that resonates so deeply with me. Unless you’re like a scientist or work in the medical field- I get it for sanitary reasons or whatever. But ever since I could remember, I threw a temper tantrum if you dressed me in something I didn’t like.

The first morning having to follow uniforms I had a panic attack! The second day I retaliated by wearing my uniform inside out because it looked cuter that way and my roommate Nicole agreed!

I visited my grandma a year ago, she told me that when I was 4, I would ask for certain designs to wear with specific fabrics picked out. I remember my favorite dress that my grandma made for me. A white cotton babydoll dress, with a wide ruffled collar, lined with red trimming and a red little bow, right on my decollete. She told me that I never wanted to take it off.

I quit everything that required a uniform- dance, catholic school, and any type of sport because I hated them and frankly not very good. I’ve always had trouble following rules.

I bought a planner, in order to establish my own kind of rules. lol So let’s collaborate! So I can write it down on my cute butterfly, flower, pink, purple, and blue year of 2023 planner! Is this how I finally become an Adult?

I struggle with the likeness of the reality of the fashion world vs my delusional love for it. There’s so many rules and regulations, politics and egotistic superiors. But I will not be a prisoner of such. Fashion doesn’t have rules, at it’s true core values, fashion is limitless and inclusive. Fashion is expression, it should be free of judgment. Let others inspire you and vice versa. Uniformity can kiss my ass! Whether your uniform is one that you wear mentally or a uniform that you physically wear, try to make it look cute!

Also, why so serious? The Joker was onto something with that. I collect lighters and the one that I have on me today is the Joker. I resonate with his message but without all the killing and being evil hoopla.

I like to laugh, everything is a joke and can be made into a joke. Like, if you’re not laughing babe, ask yourself why? Look within maybe? Or Look in the mirror, you look horrible, let me style you! <3


Xoxo,

Emilia Lorenzi



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